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Unexpected Nostalgia

The COVID-19 pandemic brought unprecedented loss and hardship to countless people worldwide, and my heart goes out to all who lost loved ones during this devastating period. 

Yet, as I reflect on those extraordinary times, I find myself experiencing an unexpected feeling – a peculiar sort of nostalgia for that period of global pause and transformation.

Let me be clear: this isn't about celebrating the virus or its tragic consequences. Rather, it's about acknowledging how this collective experience fundamentally altered our understanding of "normal" and our capacity for adaptation.

I vividly remember mid-March 2020, when everything changed almost overnight. The initial panic was palpable – endless lines at grocery stores, people stockpiling toilet paper and sanitizing wipes, and a general sense of uncertainty hanging in the air. 

Those first few days felt surreal, like we were living in a really bad episode of Black Mirror.

As weeks turned into months, our world transformed in ways we never imagined. Schools shut their doors down, offices emptied, and many businesses that relied on physical interaction ground to a halt. 

The bustling streets of the Philippines, normally choking on traffic, became eerily empty. You could drive for kilometers without encountering the usual gridlock – an unprecedented yet uneasy sight.

The new normal brought its own set of rules and rituals. Village passes became essential documents for leaving our homes. Temperature checks became mandatory gatekeepers – 37 degrees Celsius became a magical number that could grant or deny access to essential establishments. Masks became as crucial as house keys, and vaccination cards turned into passports for daily life.

As an online freelancer, I was fortunate. My work not only continued but thrived as businesses pivoted to digital solutions. However, this personal advantage made me acutely aware of my privilege. 

Many others faced devastating professional disruptions, forcing them to completely reimagine their livelihoods.

The gradual return to "normal" was anything but straightforward. Schools adopted hybrid models, mixing online and face-to-face classes. Workplaces experimented with flexible arrangements. 

It took nearly three years before we approached something resembling pre-pandemic life, and even then, things weren't quite the same.

This experience reinforced a profound truth that Viktor Frankl captured in "Man's Search for Meaning" – it's not about what we expect from life, but what life expects from us

Looking back, what strikes me most isn't the hardship or the fear, but humanity's remarkable capacity to adapt. We learned to connect differently, work differently, and live differently. 

The pandemic years taught us that life can flip upside down with the flip of a switch, returning us to zero in an instant. But they also showed us that we can rebuild, adapt, and find new ways forward. 

Perhaps that's why I hold this period in such a complex light – not for the tragedy it brought, but for the lessons it taught us about our own resilience and capacity for change.

Again, and just to be clear, this isn't about romanticizing a global catastrophe. Instead, it's about acknowledging how even in our darkest moments, we can find valuable insights about human adaptation and survival. 

As we move forward, these lessons remain relevant: stay flexible, be ready to adapt, and remember that sometimes the only way through is to learn how to navigate life on the fly.

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